Good point Juni, he can't be forced into saying it, I would feel terrible if that were to happen. Patience is a virtue I guess. IF he never says it I have nothing to lose because then he won't know how I truly feel
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Those Three Words "I love you"
by Thinking of Leaving inhi everyone, happy friday.
i have a question for the guys and girls on this board.
do you think that the man or the woman should say "i love you" first in a relationship?.
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Those Three Words "I love you"
by Thinking of Leaving inhi everyone, happy friday.
i have a question for the guys and girls on this board.
do you think that the man or the woman should say "i love you" first in a relationship?.
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Hi Juni, I understand what you're saying, but I"m always afraid that if I say it first he won't say it backso I hold back. Just being cautious I guess.
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Those Three Words "I love you"
by Thinking of Leaving inhi everyone, happy friday.
i have a question for the guys and girls on this board.
do you think that the man or the woman should say "i love you" first in a relationship?.
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awwww that's so sweet, I'm glad I'm not the only one who thinks the man should initiate those words.
but after only two weekslol
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Those Three Words "I love you"
by Thinking of Leaving inhi everyone, happy friday.
i have a question for the guys and girls on this board.
do you think that the man or the woman should say "i love you" first in a relationship?.
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Thinking of Leaving
Hi everyone, happy Friday
I have a question for the guys and girls on this board. Do you think that the man or the woman should say "I love you" first in a relationship?how long should a couple wait before saying those words?
I'm a firm believer in not saying I love you until the guy says it first, is that wrong?Any feedback would certainly help. Thanks and have a great weekend!
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Any "Worldly" Bad Traits Showing Since You Left The "Truth"???
by minimus indo you tend to swear and curse now??
overindulging in drinking??
smoking??
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I can't bring myself to swear or commit fornication, don't really have the desire to anyhow. I think I still want to wait until marriage, the trouble is finding a worldly man who is willing to waitI dunno, I think I'm worth itI still hate to hear people swear and I still hate watching movies with swearing in it.
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Should I wait to be questioned by the elders? or take my leave in advance?
by Thinking of Leaving inhi everyone, i recently joined this forum as i'm close to being df.
i am suppose to meet with a judical committee soon but was thinking that i don't want to go through those personal questions that i'm sure the elders would ask.
does anyone know, is it better to just tell the elders before, say like on the phone, that i want to be df and not go through the committee?
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so I didn't show up at the meeting last night and they haven't called me. I thought for sure they would call from the Kingdom Hall to see if I'm coming. I await their second "meeting" with me, for sure after I don't show up for the next counsel session I'll be DF. I'm getting nervous now. This is all so new to me.
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Should I wait to be questioned by the elders? or take my leave in advance?
by Thinking of Leaving inhi everyone, i recently joined this forum as i'm close to being df.
i am suppose to meet with a judical committee soon but was thinking that i don't want to go through those personal questions that i'm sure the elders would ask.
does anyone know, is it better to just tell the elders before, say like on the phone, that i want to be df and not go through the committee?
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well I heard that if I don't meet with them, after a couple of attempts, they WILL DF me. So I can't wait
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An update
by Frequent_Fader_Miles inthanks so much for the really warm welcome.
just a small confession .. my last post was actually written a couple months ago before i'd gotten the nerve to post.
i copied and pasted it ... and forgot to update it.. my wedding came off in december 2006, and my mom did attend.
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aye gyul what you doing on here?
congratulations K
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Should I wait to be questioned by the elders? or take my leave in advance?
by Thinking of Leaving inhi everyone, i recently joined this forum as i'm close to being df.
i am suppose to meet with a judical committee soon but was thinking that i don't want to go through those personal questions that i'm sure the elders would ask.
does anyone know, is it better to just tell the elders before, say like on the phone, that i want to be df and not go through the committee?
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so the elders came to my door on Saturday, after I didn't return their phone calls. Now they want me to meet with them AFTER the meeting on Wednesday night!!! Unbelievable!! Imagine I haven't gone to a meeting in months but they want me to meet with them after the meeting? where everyone can see me go into the B school to be questioned by them? are they trying to humilate me or something??? I cannot believe this.
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Should I wait to be questioned by the elders? or take my leave in advance?
by Thinking of Leaving inhi everyone, i recently joined this forum as i'm close to being df.
i am suppose to meet with a judical committee soon but was thinking that i don't want to go through those personal questions that i'm sure the elders would ask.
does anyone know, is it better to just tell the elders before, say like on the phone, that i want to be df and not go through the committee?
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well my only reason for leaving is not because I want to sin, I have serious doubts about the religion especially the blood issue and the matter of the 144,000. I'm sorry for calling it the "truth", I'm just so use to that term. You all know what it's like when you're just about to leavethese things are ingrained in you for a very very long time.